Everyone makes mistakes it is apart of being human….but it’s what we do with that mistake that defines us as a person…what I mean is…. Its ok to make a mistake IF and this is a big IF you learn from that mistake…all the way threw my life I have made critical mistakes for example when I was in like I think grade 12 I took my high school crush out to the movies and my mistake was and I guess this came down to IMMATURITY… is double dating with my dad and his girl friend *bends head in shame* ..... now I liked this girl since frigan year 8 to the start of year 12 and when I thought I had my opportunity I blew it I didn’t make a move or anything ….. BUT life dealt me other cards soooo I consider it a path I never ventured down and I m cool wit that that’s fine …. Thing is I have learnt from that….its amazing what being out of high school for a few years do to you…..I look back on my high school year and think what a complete tosser I was In some of things I did….but I hold no regrets because all those choices I made…made me the person I am today and I am completely happy with that….I mean yes I was very much in my shell to what I am today I was innocent I was naive young dumb and immature but I am fine with that….because I am not that today because of life experience and mistakes I have made….
I remember buying my first 25 bag of weed (all my friends and family no of this so I have nothing to hide) when I was umm 19 I think we were in the city at a local bar(and my mates i
f you reading will remember) and I bought it and the mistake I was going to make was to ask for my money back and give him back what I had just purchased….now luckily a few good mates stepped in and stopped me from making that stupid mistake or I would of ended with my head stomped in…. so I am very great full for my mates…. also taking weed was another mistake and luckily I don’t do it because I noticed it messed with my head and made me more aggressive …..Allot …. If I didn’t learn by my mistakes then I don’t know where I would end up in this world…
Learning by your mistakes took me about hmmm 14 years to learn….learning not to regret the things I did also took me 14 years…. And I am glad I learned to learn by my mistakes later then never…making mistakes and having regrets are all part of life…it defines you as a person and makes you learn…..humans are constantly learning and making mistakes because we are all far from perfect…. So don’t be afraid to make mistakes be afraid not to learn by them that’s the worse part….
For example we have jenny here been with her boy friend jack for the past 2 years…in those 2 years she has been abused physically now she stays with him because he says he is going to change and he is sorry but continues to abuse jenny…..now what would be the stupid thing here? making the mistake to be with jack in the first place and living the your whole life regretting it? or learning by your mistake and doing something about it?…think about it
Another example and I am going to use my self again….. (because I have made allot of mistakes) I was about hmmmm I think 8 and I was fishing with my dad but it was really really hot and we were down at Jacobs welb fishing I said I want to go for a swim and dad said no because there are a lot of rocks with oysters and you will cut yourself…now me being me the arrogant little bastard I was disobeyed my father and ended up with a oyster half way in my leg….mistake lol learnt by it yes….. I have learned about life the hard way and I probably will in the future that me that’s how I learn….and that’s how I am… Sometime it works out for me most of the times it doesn’t
Another incident is where I was fishing with mum and I was getting really close to the jetty edge and she told me to stay back and not get to close or I will fall in….now after of many hours of mum telling me this guess what happens I fall in! keep in mind that I was about 8 again and I just finished watching jaws 1 and 2 the previous night…..all that was running threw my head at that time was the dadum dadum…. soooo I decided not to do the smart thing and swim around but instead climb the oyster infested jetty pole cutting my legs and getting strangers to pull me up…mum said the look was priceless on my face I think it went along the lines of “cliff hanger” she said when the women is holding onto the dude and she has the horror look in her face.
I have made a lot of mistakes I have made more then others and I am still making mistakes and I will but at least I’m learning from them and not repeating them….my advise is pay more attention and go hmmm have I put my self in this situation before If I HAVE what was the end result if bad then don’t get your self into that situation again….. easy!
Peace
Haydos
I remember buying my first 25 bag of weed (all my friends and family no of this so I have nothing to hide) when I was umm 19 I think we were in the city at a local bar(and my mates i
f you reading will remember) and I bought it and the mistake I was going to make was to ask for my money back and give him back what I had just purchased….now luckily a few good mates stepped in and stopped me from making that stupid mistake or I would of ended with my head stomped in…. so I am very great full for my mates…. also taking weed was another mistake and luckily I don’t do it because I noticed it messed with my head and made me more aggressive …..Allot …. If I didn’t learn by my mistakes then I don’t know where I would end up in this world…Learning by your mistakes took me about hmmm 14 years to learn….learning not to regret the things I did also took me 14 years…. And I am glad I learned to learn by my mistakes later then never…making mistakes and having regrets are all part of life…it defines you as a person and makes you learn…..humans are constantly learning and making mistakes because we are all far from perfect…. So don’t be afraid to make mistakes be afraid not to learn by them that’s the worse part….
For example we have jenny here been with her boy friend jack for the past 2 years…in those 2 years she has been abused physically now she stays with him because he says he is going to change and he is sorry but continues to abuse jenny…..now what would be the stupid thing here? making the mistake to be with jack in the first place and living the your whole life regretting it? or learning by your mistake and doing something about it?…think about it
Another example and I am going to use my self again….. (because I have made allot of mistakes) I was about hmmmm I think 8 and I was fishing with my dad but it was really really hot and we were down at Jacobs welb fishing I said I want to go for a swim and dad said no because there are a lot of rocks with oysters and you will cut yourself…now me being me the arrogant little bastard I was disobeyed my father and ended up with a oyster half way in my leg….mistake lol learnt by it yes….. I have learned about life the hard way and I probably will in the future that me that’s how I learn….and that’s how I am… Sometime it works out for me most of the times it doesn’t
Another incident is where I was fishing with mum and I was getting really close to the jetty edge and she told me to stay back and not get to close or I will fall in….now after of many hours of mum telling me this guess what happens I fall in! keep in mind that I was about 8 again and I just finished watching jaws 1 and 2 the previous night…..all that was running threw my head at that time was the dadum dadum…. soooo I decided not to do the smart thing and swim around but instead climb the oyster infested jetty pole cutting my legs and getting strangers to pull me up…mum said the look was priceless on my face I think it went along the lines of “cliff hanger” she said when the women is holding onto the dude and she has the horror look in her face.
I have made a lot of mistakes I have made more then others and I am still making mistakes and I will but at least I’m learning from them and not repeating them….my advise is pay more attention and go hmmm have I put my self in this situation before If I HAVE what was the end result if bad then don’t get your self into that situation again….. easy!
Peace
Haydos
